Just A Femme Little Guy Who Wants To Wear Dresses

goatsorcery:

im so done with seeing articles about kids and screen time that doesnt mention parent behaviors even once. “kids are always on their phones” so are the parents! which the kids look to for how they should behave! ipad babies didn’t chose to only play on their ipads, thats what their parents gave them!

an anecdotal example: when i was a kid, all my parents would do in their minimal free time was watch tv and then they would be surprised when in my sister and i’s minimal free time we would also only watch tv/play video games. they scolded us for not reading books, but they never read books. they scolded us for not going outside but they never went outside.

“kids are always on their damn phones” my mom is in her 60s and opens up candy crush anytime she’s sitting — it isnt just the kids

crazycatsiren:

I don’t know which neurotypical person needs to hear this, but did you know that when a neurodivergent person says “I don’t understand”, “I don’t know”, or “I don’t get it”, instead of making fun of them or putting them down, you can simply just explain to them.

709-404-deactivated20230607:

ALT

drew a constant mood on the mind

rippedstitches:

Oh shit sorry my cats fell asleep on ur dash. Yea u can kiss their heads

(via liver-spleen-brainstem-lungs)

carduelis-carduelis:

Dont’ Like, Don’t Read

or DL; DR

• You are responsible for curating your own online experience.
• If something upsets you, makes you angry or queasy or triggers you, stop reading/looking at it. Avoid things that might make you feel that way.
• Learn to use the Sort and Filter function on AO3, especially the Exclude tools.
• On social media, block and mute accounts / tags / words when necessary.
• If you hated something, you don’t need to tell that to the creator or start pointing fingers at them publicly.
• The Back button is free. Use it.

Addendum:

Yes, for this to work, creators need to tag their works accordingly, so that people know what sort of content they are about to engage with and can nope out if necessary.

I will probably make another PSA about the importance of proper tagging later.

Ship And Let Ship

or SALS

• You are allowed to ship whatever you want.
• Everyone else is also allowed to ship whatever they want.
• You are entitled to dislike or even hate a ship. If you want to do this online, in public, don’t use the ship tags for hate posts.
• If you see someone posting about a ship they like and you don’t, there is no need for you to start arguing with them in their replies / comments / QRTs / reblogs. Don’t throw your hate in their face.
• Do not harass fan creators or fans for shipping something you disapprove.
• All of this also applies to liking / disliking an individual character.

Addendum:

”I agree with this, except when…”

No, then you are NOT agreeing with this.

Let me make this VERY clear. There are NO exceptions. None.

You don’t EVER harass real people over pixels.

If you disagree with this, kindly block and move on.

Your Kink Is Not My Kink

or YKINMK / YKINMKATO

• The longer version is ”Your Kink Is Not My Kink And That’s Okay”.
• People have different tastes. Not everything is for everybody.
• Even if you don’t like a specific kink, other people are still allowed to use it in their creations.
• You are entitled to dislike kinky content and think that it’s ”weird”.
• Don’t kink shame or judge people based on their kinks.
• This goes both ways: your kink is not someone else’s kink, so don’t push it onto those who are not into it.

Be Kind

or Don’t Be An Asshole

• Focus on the things you like instead of the things you hate.
• Create and unite instead of destroying and dividing.
• Don’t harass real people over fictional things.
• Stop stirring up petty drama just to get some attention on social media.
• Stop trying to ”win”. Fandom is not a competition.
• Remember that your own experiences aren’t universally shared. Your perception of things can differ from someone else’s, but that doesn’t mean either of you is necessarily wrong.

(via headcanonsandmore)

genie-made-of-clouds:

Endeavor: I will not stand here and be insulted!

Aizawa:

Aizawa: then stand over there and be insulted i don’t give a fuck

just-shower-thoughts:

The only thing wrong with humanity is people

sessionguitar:

hayley williams gets an award for being the most lesbian non lesbian to ever exist. frank iero is second runner up of this award

(via xboygeniusx)